I have a few questions pertaining to different aspects of my hermit crab. First and foremost, I found out recently that she is actually a female crab! I decided to continue to call her Shelldon considering that is what she is used to, but I have begin to also call her pet names such as "sweetie" and even "princess", she seems to enjoy it.
First two questions: a couple of weeks ago I had noticed that her poop had started to become fully white. And last week it was closer to brown, but still gray-white-ish. Is this normal? There is barely any poop in her tank today, and I just spot cleaned as well, and did not find much. She seems to be eating/drinking normally, and she is still as active as she usually is (for a PP

Secondly, her color has been a solid reddish color as of late, but recently it seems to have changed...I think. Parts of her are seeming to turn a little lighter, and I see what might be either a reddish gray or something in that color, is it normal for their exo's to change color in between molts, it has been almost a full year since she last molted, and as I said above, she seems to be completely healthy. Besides being a little skittish around me at times due to it being too cold in my room for me to hold her out of her tank, she seems normal.
Lastly, I have been on a schedule where I change her water and food every 2 days, and her salt water every 2-3 days, and I rinse the dishes out with poland spring water, that same water I use for her water and salt water as well. Every few months I take some time to boil her dishes, let them soak for 5 minutes in salt water, then rinse them off with bottled water. I have been thinking of changing that so I boil her stuff once a month and stop rinsing it out in hot water altogether. I have well water where I live, and I have always assumed that using hot water and then finishing it with bottled water would do her no harm, but if there is a better way to do it for her, then I will gladly adopt it.
Just for reference, I use instant ocean sea salt for her salt water, poland spring for all her water, fluker's hermit crab food for her main meal, and I add some dried mealworms, cuttlebone, hermit crab cakes, and some zoomed dried fruit and zoomed peanut treats on rotation. I give her fresh food often, she loves unsalted peanuts, carrots, apples, and honey, and I am giving her blueberries soon as well as some meat to see if she will like that. If there are any suggestions on how to better her food to make sure she continues to have a balanced diet I would love to try it! Money is a bit tight but I would add to it ASAP. There are weeks where she barely touches her mealworms, and weeks where she devours them, same goes for the cuttlebone.
I apologize for the long post, any feedback and advice would be welcome!
