I throw away molted exoskeletons; Am I a horrible crab mom?

[TitanStorm]

So, my purple pincher Triton molted just two days ago. He's on the mend now and is back to his normal hungry, chipper self, but I've recently been faced with a dilemma. So, between the four hermit crabs I've had, I've had four moltings, and you'd think that someone who has witnessed that a few times would get used to it, but no. I still need my little brother to reach in and take out the exoskeleton for me because it freaks me out so much. I know you're supposed to leave the exoskeleton in the tank for them to eat for the nutrients and all, but I just can't. As I'm writing this right now, I'm shuddering just thinking about the sight of the exoskeleton. Is it really so awful and horrible to just throw it away? I mean, they've seemed to recover just fine after molting (except for my Phorcys getting murdered post-molt), so I don't know. Am I just going to have to man up? Please advise!

[curlysister]

Your crabs should be burying themselves to molt, and you really shouldn't see the exoskeleton at all.
What are you using for substrate?