I wrote a lot I noticed so there is a TL;DR section at the end (Too long ; Didn't read)
My aunt (who I just met (I had a whole part of my family on my moms side no one ever knew (long story))) and I were walking through the mall and she saw me looking at the hermit crabs running around in the kiosk as we walked past (I hadn't told her what I wanted for Christmas) while shopping for her kids. She ended up going back the next day and buying me one. Now, yes it was in a mall kiosk so yes, he's painted. Idk if its a safe paint for him or not. I had to go to an art store to purchase big enough shells for him to fit into. I was told I could purchase shells at an art store as long as I boil them to clean them up. (It sucks that I moved out to Missouri from Washington State because I could have just driven to my favorite beach museum and bought fresh shells that they had just gotten from the beach) But, anyway he's still hanging out in his Spider-Man painted shell. I bought him a 10gal tank (Yeah, its kinda small, but I don't make a great amount of money and the tank was hard enough to find as it was (These PetCos and PetSmarts don't stock just tanks out here???), a friend, dish bowls for freshwater, salt water, food. (I spent all Christmas doing research on what they needed to survive and bought it all basically)
Here's where I'm somewhat worried but not completely. He's very...shy. I did lots of reading on the forums and other places saying they are shy because they are prey animals. I also assume he's this way because he was a mall kiosk hermit crab and was more than likely poked and prodded by little children who either knew no better or had nothing better to do. I know he's fine though for the most part because at night I can catch him tunneling around and when I come home from work hes in a different spot. Now, his friend that I bought him. I bought her from PetCo. She is the complete and utter opposite. Whether she trusts me or not (Someone on the forums said hermits crabs are not capable of trust) If I stick my arm in the tank for whatever reason she will stop what she's doing and beeline it straight to my hand and latch on. She uses me as a jungle gym and due to that at night shes usually not in the tank instead shes in my bed crawling around on my arm. Until I go to bed at least, she doesn't sleep with me of course. She's been doing laps around the tank the whole time I've been writing this.
Something else I'm wondering is, with my first one being very noticeably inactive and his friend being very active in my presence should I get a third little friend? Who is possibly also active like his friend? I read somewhere to follow a 5gal per hermit crab rule.
I also know not to force him out of his shell because that won't end well, but what do I do about his paint possibly being dangerous for him? I actually just caught him standing on top of one of the new shells I bought him but when he noticed I noticed him he pushed it over and buried himself. (I actually watched him walk from where he was buried and watched him climb on top of the shell but he saw me move ever so slightly)
Something else I had read was Chlorine is bad for them. But, that same place also said you can use water bottles. How does that work? Water bottles have Chlorine in them so what's the difference? Either way, I've been boiling my water nightly to rid of Chlorine so I always have Chlorine-free water for a bath and for watering.
I named him Herbert and his friend is apparently named Shelby. He I named but when I bought Shelby from PetCo they had a "Pet Adoption" paperwork form I had to fill out and on the Partner Name section the girl who helped me get her wrote Shelby. Idk if Shelby was the girls name who helped me get him and shes trying to go 50/50 on my hermit crab or if she named her for me. I'm not even sure if Herbert is a guy and Shelby is a girl.
I refrain from touching Herbert or even getting close to him since just walking near the tank seems to startle him into hiding. Shelby though loves the attention which tells me that the girls at PetCo took really good care of them even though they had a really really big fancy hermit crab whose shell was clearly way too small for him too that I really wanted to buy. I'm thinking I'm going to go back and donate a much larger shell to them for him as the shells I got came in a $20 bag of randomly assorted shells for art projects.
Shelby has never pinched me, so far. But, I spend my summers scuba diving and catching crawdads in the lake near my old house and I use to go crabbing all the time as a kid. I've been pinched by everything from small crawdads to pretty darn big king crabs. So I'm not too worried about getting scared when she eventually does and flinging her across the room.
Also yes, I need a bigger heating pad for the tank. The one I bought is too small

Some pictures of Herbert and Shelby. (Herbert = Spiderman!)
My phone's lens cover is scratched so the pictures are a bit grainy!



This was my trying to get a picture of the legendary Herbert out of his shell. He saw it and ditched.



TL;DR: Got herbert for Christmas he's crazy shy with my presence, bought Shelby who I might have to make up some custody papers for and she will come completely out of her shell for me when shes in my hands.
/e Happy new year! From Missouri, USA!