cswan81 wrote:Well....there's an update. Somehow, overnight, Flame dug under the two liter and I woke to findhim in with Gabby. Her shell is now empty and there is evidence of either parts, or I guess exo in there around them. So I'm assuming he ate her??? They've been together for art least 4 years, and NEVER competed for shells, or fought at all. They will eat a dead companion, I know that. Smelled her yesterday and there was no odor. I can't imagine he would eat her alive after so long together, so she must have dead regardless of the lack of smell, right? Whats everyone's thoughts?
Also, thank you to everyone who has taken the time to respond, and answer my many questions. It's greatly appreciated!
So the shell is completely empty? What kind of parts are you seeing? I really don't want to guess one way or another since I don't have experience with it, but honestly if her shell is empty it doesn't sound good.

I suppose if she had died overnight, he could have eaten her and if there isn't much left, she may just not be putting off an odor?
Also, as far as a new friend - yes, if you just have a 10 gallon, you'll probably want a smaller crab. Obviously they'll grow and you'll have to upgrade eventually, but for now the smaller they are the longer they can stay in a 10 gallon. I have quite a few crabs that are the same size and they all get along great, but what Aussie said about increased aggression makes sense. I suppose you can lower the chances by offering plenty of awesome shells, good hiding spots, etc.
Edit: Have you looked into adoption for a new friend? Posting on Craigslist, in the adoption forums here, etc. That way you can avoid giving the crummy pet store your money, and help a crab out in the process.

It's worth a shot!